Men suck...

But, that's just my opinion. I was sorta of seeing this guy, I say sorta because I told him to never us the R word (Relationship), the two C words (Commitment and Cunt), the L word (Love) or the M word (Marriage) to me ever. I told him I was not his girlfriend and that he would have to deal with my issues. Probably a little harsh on my part, but I just got out of a marriage (still technically married) and my heart was really crushed in the split.

While hubby and I have come to terms with the split we remain pretty good friends. When I lost my job he was there to help with my car payment, when I needed to move he was the ONLY one to help me lug shit up three flights of stairs (no the new guy didn't help any).

So why was it last week new guy specifically told me that I needed to remember I was with him and not my hubby? Or Saturday when I logged into my email there was this long detailed message from new guy about how hubby was trying to get into some girls pants and was lying to her and never told her about me?

WTF??? Why did any of the second part pertain to me? I've been consistent in telling people that hubby is a great friend. A liar and cheater, yes, but a great friend...just don't marry him! LOL

What was new guys point in telling me any of this? His reason--he was looking out for a friend. Who? Me or her?

I point blank told him to go to hell. That if he was that intimidated by my friendship with hubby he might as well take a hike, because I wouldn't stop being friend with him. No, there's no reason for us to be friendly, we don't have kids together--we could sign the divorce papers and go our separate ways--but, we've known each other for 8 years, and well, I love him. Not husband and wife love, but I love him as a friend. As he does with me. He's been there for me and I have for him. If any new guy in my life can't accept that then...I guess i'll be alone forever!!! LOL

Men royally suck!